Brides don’t like to be in the shade.
Everyone always says they will lose weight for a wedding. One woman actually did, which is great, except she’s not the bride-to-be. Even worse, the bride-to-be is apparently upset because she’s worried she won’t get the attention at her own wedding.

According to a story on Reddit, a woman who has lost about 20 pounds in the past year due to the pandemic is no longer welcome at her sister-in-law’s wedding.
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In a post on Reddit’s forums, a user named ThrowRAWeddings shared his story. According to her, she has lost about 20 pounds in the last year due to the pandemic. She explained that she had more time to exercise and focus on making healthy meals.
Her brother’s sister is getting married later this year and has only a small group of people at the ceremony. The family recently got together to make plans for the wedding and apparently things weren’t going well.
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According to the story, ‘We met at our house yesterday to talk to her brother about wedding plans and when (the bride-to-be) saw me she got mad at me and accused me of wanting her on stage at her own wedding put. because now I’m in shape and I feel good and confident. “
The story continues, “She said (I) knew she was getting married and that I had my whole life to get fit, but I made a conscious decision to do it just before her wedding. My husband defended me to her but after she left he told me I should have apologized to her because she is very insecure and because her fiancé and best friend and her fiancé’s parents haven’t seen me since I lost weight, they will and it could feel like I was deliberately trying to beat her. ”
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The author concludes the story by saying that she has been told that she either cannot come to the wedding or that she has to “wear something really baggy” so that everyone else doesn’t notice her weight loss.
She writes, “I don’t feel like I did anything on purpose to ruin the wedding, but the fact that my husband, who was just supporting, is taking her side, is driving me crazy!”
In fact, Reddit users took her side, with one user writing, “Everyone has insecurities, and it’s tough, but you can’t demand that other people adjust their lives to your insecurities. The world isn’t about your sister-in-law. that it’s best you don’t go to the wedding, except go there in a baggy dress and reaffirm to your sister-in-law that if she has a tantrum, she’s getting what she wants. ”
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Another user added, “This is just crazy! I would be so happy for anyone who focused on getting healthier and looking / feeling their best. Good thing you are doing so well! Your man is making the bad behavior. from sister-in-law possible, there is no reason for it. “
“You’re struggling to wrap your head around it because it’s ridiculous and your husband has to get his act together,” added another, “and you need to support this instead of his sister’s absurd demands.”