Parenting: Getting angry or yelling at children repeatedly can damage their brains

How ‘hard parenting’ can affect your child’s BRAIN: Getting angry, hitting, or yelling at kids can shrink their neural regions linked to anxiety and depression, study warns

  • Scientists analyzed parenting practices and took brain scans of children aged 2-9
  • Those subject to ‘hard parenting’ had smaller amygdala and prefrontal cortex
  • These brain structures play a key role in emotional regulation and anxiety
  • Researchers hope the findings will encourage parents to take less harsh measures when dealing with their children

Getting angry, hitting, shaking, or yelling at your child repeatedly can affect their brain structures during adolescence, a new study warns.

Researchers found that children raised with ‘hard parenting’ developed smaller prefrontal cortex and amygdala – two brain structures that play a key role in emotional regulation and the onset of anxiety and depression.

It is worrying that these harsh parenting practices are common and generally considered socially acceptable according to the team.

The researchers hope the findings will encourage parents to take less harsh measures when dealing with their children.

Getting angry, hitting, shaking, or yelling at your child repeatedly can affect brain structures during adolescence, a new study warns (stock image)

Getting angry, hitting, shaking, or yelling at your child repeatedly can affect brain structures during adolescence, a new study warns (stock image)

Which parts of the brain are affected?

The team used data from children who had been followed at CHU Saint-Justine hospital since they were born there in the early 2000s.

Parenting practices, childhood anxiety levels, and brain scans were evaluated annually while the children were between the ages of two and nine.

Worryingly, the results showed that children subject to higher levels of harsh parenting developed smaller prefrontal cortex and amygdala – two brain structures known to play a key role in emotional regulation and the onset of anxiety and depression.

In the study, researchers from the University of Montreal and Stanford University wanted to look at the effects of hard parenting on the brains of children.

Dr. Sabrina Suffren, who led the study, said, “The implications go beyond changes in the brain.

“I think it’s important for parents and society to understand that the frequent use of harsh parenting practices can harm a child’s development.

‘We are talking about their social and emotional development, but also about their brain development.’

The team used data from children who had been followed at CHU Saint-Justine hospital since they were born there in the early 2000s.

Parenting practices, childhood anxiety levels, and brain scans were evaluated annually while the children were between the ages of two and nine.

Worryingly, the results showed that children subject to higher levels of harsh parenting developed smaller prefrontal cortex and amygdala – two brain structures known to play a key role in emotional regulation and the onset of anxiety and depression.

Dr. Suffren explained, “These findings are both significant and new.

Worryingly, the results showed that children subjected to higher levels of hard parenting developed smaller prefrontal cortex and amygdala - two brain structures known to play a key role in emotional regulation and the onset of anxiety and depression.

Worryingly, the results showed that children subjected to higher levels of hard parenting developed smaller prefrontal cortex and amygdala – two brain structures known to play a key role in emotional regulation and the onset of anxiety and depression.

“It is the first time that harsh parenting practices that do not lead to serious abuse have been associated with decreased brain structure, similar to what we see in victims of serious abuse.”

The researchers hope their findings will encourage parents to implement less stringent parenting strategies in the future.

In the UK, it is illegal for a parent or guardian to hit their child unless it amounts to ‘reasonable punishment’.

Child Law Advice explained, “Whether a” blow “amounts to a reasonable punishment depends on the circumstances of each case, taking into account factors such as the age of the child and the nature of the blow.

“There are strict guidelines for the use of reasonable punishments and it will not be possible to rely on the defense if you impose severe physical punishment on your child, be it injury, actual bodily harm, serious bodily harm, or child abuse.”

However, statistics released by the Office of National Statistics (ONS) suggest that emotional abuse in families is still common in the UK.

ONS explained: “The Crime Survey for England and Wales (CSEW) estimated that 1 in 11 adults aged 18 to 74 years was emotionally abused before the age of 16 (3.8 million people); this only applies to offenders aged 16 or older.

The abuse was usually committed by the parent (s) of the child; about 5 in 10 were abused by their mother, about 4 in 10 were abused by their father. ‘

HELICOPTER PARENTS: A FORM OF OVERPROTECTIVE PARENTS

Parents who are overprotective are also referred to as ‘helicopter parents’.

They deserved this stereotype because they were seen as hovering relentlessly above their children, trying to run their affairs on micro-management.

The first use of the term is widely attributed to Dr. Haim Ginott.

In it, teens said their parents would hover above them like a helicopter.

The term became popular enough to become a dictionary entry in 2011.

Helicopter parents take extraordinary care of their children to protect them from failure, rejection and injury.

They want ‘happy’ children and often feel that teachers should pay attention to their children in the same overprotective way.

This approach has sparked controversy, with some experts arguing that children need to experience a full range of emotions in order to adjust properly.

Parents who want their children to be happy always are doing their children a disservice in this view.

The parent of the ‘helicopter’ rushes in to help instead of allowing their child to manage a challenging situation on their own.

Some experts say this can lead to children not being able to handle even minor problems because they never get the chance to fail and then learn from their mistakes.

However, some experts suggest that such “intrusive” parenting can benefit children later in life.

Among them is Dr. Matthias Doepke, professor of economics at the Weinberg College of Arts and Sciences at Northwestern University.

He argues that the intensity of parenting has risen in many countries in line with growing inequality.

Pushy ‘helicopter’ parents, normally from more economically privileged backgrounds, who generally raise higher performing offspring.

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