Pamela Anderson has been accused of being a “home squatter” after allegedly stealing her new husband from another woman and breaking up a happy family of five.
The model and actress is accused of seducing handyman Dan Hayhurst – whom she married on Christmas Eve – while working on her estate in the Canadian city of Ladysmith and dating another woman.
On Wednesday, the 53-year-old former Baywatch star announced that she had married her ‘bodyguard’ Dan, 40, during what was her sixth marriage, to her fifth husband, saying, ‘I’m right where I need to be – in arms from a man who loves me. “
But Dan’s heartbroken ex Carey, who lived with him for the past five years and raised his two children, has shared how she was blinded by the affair and knew nothing about their marriage until she read about it online.
She said the couple started getting close to each other early last year – while she and Dan were still together – before finally moving out of their shared home in July and moving into Pam’s.
Carey, 42, said, “This isn’t the closed love story being portrayed, it’s all a facade.
“I decided to vote because I want people to know that my nearly five-year relationship, with three involved children, ended because of the affair Pam and Dan started while he was still with me.
“It is sad that people are celebrating and encouraging this when it started with deceit, denial and life-shattering choices for all involved.
Worm turned
It wasn’t this romance that happened overnight. He worked with her for more than six months before that happened.
“He wasn’t her bodyguard then, he’s a handyman, she hired him to work on her house.
“We were all totally blinded by this, it was so difficult for us. And it’s not just me and the kids, a lot of people have been hurt by them. Dan has lost friendships and business relationships because of this. “
Mother-of-one Carey, from Vancouver Island, and Dan, then a single father, got together after meeting through a dating app, and she moved in with him on the mainland in Squamish, a town north of Vancouver, and helped raise his two young children.
The couple moved to Vancouver Island about four years ago for a fresh start.
She said, “We’ve done everything together like family vacations, family fishing trips, we worked together on family projects. We always were. “
But their happy lives would change forever after Dan was hired as a contractor to renovate Pamela’s house, located on five acres in Ladysmith.
He started there in the early fall of 2019 and soon complained to Carey about how ‘crazy’ Pamela was and how difficult and demanding she was to work for.
In a text shared with The Sun, he wrote: “The dragon has been released! Speaking of Pam. “
In January 2020, Pamela ‘married’ film producer Jon Peters before breaking up with him two weeks later, claiming it was never a real wedding.
Carey said, “I would say, ‘What are you doing? You have to get out of that job. It’s crazy ‘. There was a crazy period when she married that guy Jon Peters for two weeks.
She had told all the contractors she was getting married a day or so earlier, so when I saw the news, I texted Dan.
“He answered back and said, ‘Hahaha he’s older than her father but I think our money issues are over’, which he meant because the man is rich.
‘I thought that was pretty ruthless of him. He didn’t seem to get along with her at all. “
Carey said things started to change in late March, with Dan spending increasing amounts of time away from home.
She continued, “The worm turned around. Covid happened and it just seemed to happen overnight.
‘Dan would stay with her and not come home, and here I take care of the children.
“At first he denied it when I confronted him, but eventually I asked him, ‘Are you sleeping with Pam? He said, “I’m just going to say I crossed the border.”
‘First he said,’ I want you to stay in our house. I do not want you to leave. I just have to figure things out ‘.
‘He later apologized to me. He said, ‘Carey, I love you. I don’t know what’s going on right now. I’m not in my right head right now. I’m not in the right place. ‘
‘He asked me to give him time to figure things out, so I just let him do what he was doing.
And then there was no turning back. I had met Pam and had dinner with her. My daughter worked for her. I could not believe it. “
The relationship between Dan and Pamela continued to develop and last July he moved the house he shared with Carey and moved in with Pam.
One-sided story
On Wednesday, Pam told an interviewer that she was with Dan for a year and added, “This year together felt like seven, like dog years.”
Carey moved out of the shared home after Dan and it is currently for sale.
She claims that he and Pam act like teenagers, saying, “When he turned 40 last year, she bought him a boat.
“He’s destroyed her car three times now and her boat twice. It’s a walking mess. They sit on their premises drinking – it’s like the Dan and Pam show. “
Pam claims she and Dan had the blessings of all their family and friends for their wedding, but Carey disputes this, saying, “No one was invited to the wedding.
“He texted his mother the night before the ceremony and said, ‘I’m getting married tomorrow, keep this on the DL and don’t say anything’.
And she didn’t answer. As if she clearly respected it because it’s her son, but she wasn’t invited. It doesn’t even look like a real wedding. Everything looks so controlled. “
She added, “He can be very manipulative, so in a way they are made for each other, but I don’t see this going on. I would be very surprised.
‘Dan and I never got married because I never want to.
“It’s nothing to me, it’s a piece of paper and it causes problems if you want to get out.
“And he told me, ‘I’ll never get married again’. And then here we are, six or eight months or whatever the hell they are in their relationship and they got married.
‘I just think,’ Wow, who are you? Who have I been with for five years? ‘None of this makes sense. “
Carey’s daughter Denise, 21, who worked as a laborer at Pam’s home, told The Sun of discovering Dan’s relationship: “I was shocked to hear about it.
“I just thought, ‘How can this even be a thing?’ I work with them full time here and I had no idea.
“And the fact that he had a family, we were a mixed family, he has two young children and she’s clearly a lot older.
What was his thought process? What was going on in his head?
‘I was so shocked. It’s something so unreal, like something straight out of the movie. I can not believe it. Everyone thinks it’s a closed love story and no one knows that there was an affair and that there is a family involved.
“And I think the hardest part is that people get this one-sided fairytale story when in reality there is so much more going on.
‘It has damaged many human lives. It has been very difficult for my mother.
She came all out and was a full-time mother to those kids. It was hard to watch her go through that.
“There were no hard times or things that were bad at home, things were perfectly normal all the time until this happened.
Pam’s not having the best marriage program, that’s for sure. So when Covid is over and she can start traveling again and all that, I really don’t see it working. “
How she got to hubby 5
PAM married wild rocker Tommy in 1995 after only knowing him for 96 hours and had two children by her, Brandon and Dylan.
The pair broke up after the Motley Crue drummer assaulted her and spent six months in prison. They divorced in 1998 but got back together briefly in 2008 before finally calling it quits.
She became engaged to the rapper and musician in 2002, but they later went their separate ways. But after they got back together, they got married in 2006.
They broke up later that year. Pam miscarried while the couple was married and they divorced shortly afterwards, citing “irreconcilable differences”.
IN 2007, Pam and professional poker player Rick were married at The Mirage hotel and casino in Las Vegas, but divorced just ten weeks later, citing the usual “irreconcilable differences,” and the marriage was later officially annulled. They remarried in 2014, but divorced for the second time in 2015.
Pam first dated the film producer over 30 years ago and apparently they tied the knot in a secret ceremony in January 2020.
They broke up after 12 days and the actress later claimed in an Instagram caption that they were “never legally married” and that it was just a “bizarre theatrical luncheon.”