“What’s wrong with the smiling emoji[?], ”one user asked in a TikTok comment. Another replied,“ It’s that bad. “In another video of a woman saying she uses it less after learning that kids don’t, a teenager said,” As a 15 year old I say you should use that emoji bc [because] we certainly will not. “
“I use everything except the smiling emoji,” 21-year-old Walid Mohammed told CNN Business. “I quit a while ago because I saw older people using it, like my mom, my older siblings, and just older people in general.”
For many Gen Z people, the 💀 emoji has become a popular replacement for conveying laughter. It is the visual version of the slang phrase “I am dead” or “I am dying”, which means that something is very funny. Other acceptable alternatives: the 😭 emoji (officially called “Loudly Crying Face”), or just write “lol” (laughing out loud) or “lmao” (laughing, well, you probably know the rest).
Seventeen-year-old Xavier Martin called the 😂 emoji “bland” and said “not too many people” his age use it. Stacy Thiru, 21, prefers the real crying emoji because it shows a more extreme emotion and feels more dramatic. She said she couldn’t even find the laughing crying emoji on her iPhone’s keyboard.
A similar emoji called “Rolling on the Floor Laughing” (🤣) is also no longer in vogue. When asked about that emoji during a video call, Thiru visibly grimaced. “I don’t like them,” she said. “My mom doesn’t even use it.”
“Tears of Joy was a victim of its own success,” said Gretchen McCulloch, an Internet linguist and author of “Because Internet: Understanding the New Rules of Language.”
“If you report digital laughter in the same way for years, it starts to feel insincere … The exaggeration wears out with continued use,” she said. That’s why Gen Zers may be looking for new and new ways to express themselves laughing in different ways.
Sometimes teens and twenties use emoji – like the laughing crying one – ironically, for example sending six or seven of them to friends in a row to overdo it. But overall, that emoji is a no-go.
“For Gen Z, it’s like having an Android,” said Mohammed.