The bachelor Kelley Flanagan mentions ‘non-negotiable things’ that resulted in her split with Peter Weber

Kelley Flanagan talked about her and Peter Weber’s breakup during a performance on Kaitlyn Bristowe’s podcast, Off the Vine, this week.

While discussing why she and the 29-year-old pilot broke up, the attorney also revealed that they briefly rekindled their relationship, but ended for good last month.

“ On my side, there were just a lot of non-negotiable things in the relationship that they essentially seemed to be working on or saying they were going to be edited or changed, and actions speak a little bit louder than words, ” the fifth runner-up said in the season of Weber’s The Bachelor.

Kelley Flanagan talked about her and Peter Weber's breakup during a performance on Kaitlyn Bristowe's podcast, Off the Vine, this week;  seen in 2020

Kelley Flanagan talked about her and Peter Weber’s breakup during a performance on Kaitlyn Bristowe’s podcast, Off the Vine, this week; seen in 2020

She continued, ‘If there was one thing I saw as disrespectful in a relationship, I’d talk about it and I was pretty boisterous.

While she would tell him right away if he did anything to make her “ feel bad, ” Flanagan said they couldn’t fix their problem areas.

The reality star noted that things were “not really changing” and that she eventually had to “accept” that.

So about: While discussing why she and the 29-year-old pilot broke up, the attorney also revealed that they briefly rekindled their relationship, but ended for good last month

So about: While discussing why she and the 29-year-old pilot broke up, the attorney also revealed that they briefly rekindled their relationship, but ended for good last month

`` On my side, there were just a lot of non-negotiable things in the relationship that they essentially seemed to be working on or saying they were going to be edited or changed, and actions speak a little louder than words, '' the contestant said on Weber's season of The Bachelor

“ On my side, there were just a lot of non-negotiable things in the relationship that they essentially seemed to be working on or saying they were going to be edited or changed, and actions speak a little louder than words, ” the contestant said on Weber’s season of The Bachelor

“It sucks,” the beauty said of their goodbyes. ‘He was basically trying to get back together and try to work on things and I was beautiful, pretty reserved about everything.’

While they have since divorced, Flanagan was persuaded to rejoin Weber after telling her, “I love you, I want to get back to you.”

However, on Valentine’s Day, their relationship was over.

Struggling for a while: While she would tell him right away when he did something to make her “feel bad,” Flanagan said they couldn’t resolve their problem areas; seen in 2019

Instant Connection: Although they've since divorced, Flanagan was persuaded to get back with Weber after telling her, 'I love you, I want to get back to you' (featured in Season 24 of The Bachelor

Instant Connection: Though they’ve since divorced, Flanagan was persuaded to get back with Weber after telling her, ‘I love you, I want to get back to you’ (featured in Season 24 of The Bachelor

“I don’t think I’ll be talking to him,” she added. ‘It’s a place in my past, I focus on my future wishes. I don’t think it was the healthiest thing for me to keep [my] past and [my] future and I wish him the best. ‘

Despite planning to move to New York City together earlier this year, Weber made the move alone.

As for going to the Big Apple just months after her ex, she joked, “It’s a big city, it’s going to be okay.”

“I don’t think I’ll communicate with him,” she added. ‘It’s a place in my past, I focus on my future wishes. I don’t think it was the healthiest thing for me to keep [my] past and [my] future and I wish him the best ‘

Same City: As for traveling to the Big Apple just months after her ex, she joked: 'It's a big city, it's going to be okay'

Same City: As for going to the Big Apple just months after her ex, she joked, ‘It’s a big city, it’s going to be okay’

There was never a time when I thought, ‘Okay, well, since you moved [there] I’m not moving there, ”she told Bristowe.

During Weber’s run on The Bachelor last year, Flanagan left the show in the seventh week; he initially chose Hannah Ann Sluss, but their engagement collapsed amid his romantic attraction to Madison Prewitt. He was first linked to Flanagan last April.

Weber first announced their split on New Year’s Eve, saying they ‘decided to go our separate ways’.

Sad: Weber announced that he and the Chicago resident had split up in December

Sad: Weber announced that he and the Chicago resident had split up in December

“Although our relationship was filled with countless happy memories, in the end our relationship just didn’t work out,” he wrote.

Kelley is someone I will always have a special love for. Someone I’ve learned more from than she’ll ever understand. Someone I am so grateful came into my life and someone to whom I will always wish the greatest blessings in life, ”he wrote.

Meanwhile, a week later, she wrote: ‘Peter and I have had some incredible times together and they will certainly be missed. Unfortunately, he and I are at two different stages of our lives and saw our future paths differently. ‘

Flanagan made it clear that she had no ill will towards him, saying, “I wish Peter all the best and thank everyone for your continued support as I move on to my next chapter.”

Better times: Meanwhile, a week later, she wrote: 'Peter and I have had some incredible times together and they will definitely be missed.  Unfortunately, he and I are in two different stages of our lives and saw our future paths differently '

Better times: Meanwhile, a week later, she wrote: ‘Peter and I have had some incredible times together and they will definitely be missed. Unfortunately, he and I are in two different stages of our lives and saw our future paths differently ‘

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